High standards dating men
If she’s the type of girl who is always talking about material things – who goes on about her rich ex-boyfriends and the expensive dinner dates her friends go on – then she’s showing you the thoughts that occupy her mind.
Let her go and move on to a girl with more attractive personality traits.
If that’s the case, there’s a way to make sure you don’t get sucked in by girls who only fake the qualities men find attractive. Specifically, those people who she is not trying to get anything from.
Pay attention to how she treats the busboy, the cab driver, strangers on the street, etc.
When you’re the one screening, you come from a place of power.
Not only will this eliminate flakey girls from your life, but a willingness to let go of women that don’t fit your values shows that integrity and strong confidence women find attractive in men.
In the early stages of dating a girl might seem great and show all the traits men find attractive in a girl – loving, attentive, fun, caring, etc.
But once that honeymoon period ends he finds that she’s changed and no longer treats him with the same loving respect she once did.
And cutting flakey girls loose has a bonus psychological effect that helps men in dating.
By letting a girl like that go you’re proving to yourself that you’re a man with choice and confidence with women.