Frustrated with online dating
And like anything else in life, working harder does not always get results. Here’s an easy way to detect if you know how to talk TO women… No she’s not thinking I’m going to make him work his ass for me.
She will just not feel much attraction towards you or will stop messaging you altogether. How many women have told you half way through a conversation, That’s a movie fantasy and rarely happens in real life. If it is feeling like work, it’s not working for her.
Sometimes you won’t even bother checking her out again.
You won’t spend any of your valuable time wondering WHY she didn’t respond. You can question them all you want BUT if those question are not objective you won’t learn much from the answers.
Most of it’s mind triggering stuff and quick attraction tactics.Sure you can re-read your message because who knows, maybe you came off like an ass. This allows you to NOT put emphasis on the date having to be some incredible experience you may not be up to giving.Maybe a simple proofread later on will point out an obvious mistake you didn’t see the first time. Incredible connections happen on dates when you and her get lost in the moment together.It become just another “nice guy” black hole of loneliness.This leads me to share with you the first real lesson I learned.