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Quite a lot of straight couples are looking for you – so much so that you have been nicknamed ‘unicorns’ (because unattached people without baggage are so incredibly rare).
Your main four options when it comes to finding partners are websites or apps, saunas, members-only sex clubs and just meeting people on a night out.
Killing Kittens is particularly good for straight couples looking for a third. In a sauna, club, bar or sex club, unless you are confidence personified, you need to have had a strong drink.
As one man who has had several threesomes told me, ‘threesomes taste best when everyone has let go of their inhibitions.’ However, don’t be so drunk as to be unattractive.
This article isn’t to judge whether you should or shouldn’t – I think you’re probably adult enough to work that out on your own.
There is a threesome app like Tinder called 3nder but Happn, Bumble and Tinder can also be very useful.
If you are on a website or app, usually someone will mention there is someone else with them, then it’s up to you if you want to join them.
Everyone will need to see (recent) pictures of everyone first.
Specific lesbian dating sites include Diva Date or you can search sites like Plenty Of Fish.
Female-only saunas are harder to track down, but there are regular parties organised by groups such as Klub Fukk on their Facebook page, or try websites such as uk.