She didn't confirm nor deny any romantic involvement, but pictures like the one below compels fans to speculate about their songwriting methods.JLo is 17 years older than the 30-year-old rapper, but age is nothing but a number.It’s a crowning achievement for him if he can really make you laugh. When dating a younger man ease him down gently, “You know Pedro, the tongue in the ear thing doesn’t really work for me (you’ve shifted the blame on you), but I really like it when you rub my elbows and suck on my finger.” Again, I’m telling you be direct. From ex-husbands’ bouncing around to mortgage payments to the fact that you keep gaining and losing the same 10 pounds over and over again. Your boytoy doesn’t have those kinds of problems nor does he have the same frame of reference that your forty-five-year-old ex-husband has either. Less baggage equals more fun and that’s something you need in your life, right now. Don’t wish you could get Restalyn injected in your smile lines before your next date. You’ll feel remarkable and look ten pounds thinner. (Newsflash: they all do.) Second, he enjoys your company. And at your age you’ve got a fantastically well-developed personality. I admit it sometimes the open admiration of a younger man about your beauty, your body, and other bits and pieces can be a bit disconcerting at times. Take every single compliment and reply with, “Thank you.” That’s all. You earned every stretch mark and bit of cellulite. So shut that crazy insecure inner-voice down and let your inhibitions loose. My boy toy hasn’t been married yet, so right now we are having a good time. For him marriage and children are something he’s looking forward to, eventually. But later on in life (even though I plan to age like Halle Berry and Demi Moore combined), I’m not going to repeat that part of my life again ever. As time progresses and we part ways, I’ll remember him fondly.This lover boy (nor any other) cannot read your mind. You know the one where your ex-husband is damaged and disillusioned because his life and career didn’t turn out the way he wanted, and somehow you’re to blame? I recently dated a younger man and as we were talking about our ex’s. Don’t screw it up by feeling insecure about your looks. Early on in my relationship with my younger man, I was feeling particularly insecure about our age difference. And when he’s up at four o’clock in the morning and stepping on Lego’s in the dark, I’ll be in the south of France on a beach chair, watching a hot young waiter bring me Champagne.A relationship with a younger man could transport you back to a more adventurous time in your life.Take advantage of all the fun moments, while using your experience to not let things get too wild.JLo should be an inspiration to women around the world to give a younger guy a shot if he deserves it.Here are five reasons to consider dating a younger man.
This isn't to say that older men are less attractive—have you seen Instagram star Gianluca Vacchi's moves?Keep this in mind when you are dating a younger man.He’s eager to find out what you like and wants to make you smile. You may find it repulsive when he jams his tongue in your ear like a bad version of Alien and he’s probably thinking it’s his rockstar move on your lady parts. That simple, direct, and honest appraisal of my ex’s behavior pretty much did for me what analyzing years of his multi-faceted mind-games couldn’t. My boytoy was right and I’m not in the shit-taking business anymore. If you don’t like the way your breasts look, go and get a sexy push-up bra that fits and hoist those girls up. First, he finds you sexy as hell and wants to get in your panties. You won’t call him fifteen times a day to find out what he’s doing. You’ve got plenty of other interests that don’t involve keeping track of him. It’s your confidence that makes you appealing, not just your looks. You’ve earned the right to feel amazing in his arms.Culturally, the older woman/younger man dynamic is perceived as an oddity, or a fluke.Fortunately, that’s changing as more older-woman and younger-man couplings make headlines.