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As I mentioned at the beginning, not all relationships between straight women and gay men are healthy.
While not the majority, some straight women love gay men for different reasons.
The group of women I’m referring to are often called ‘fag hags,’ a term that manages to be derogatory toward two groups: women and gay men.
The term 'fag hag' refers to a woman, usually in her 20s or 30s, who loves hitting the gay bars with her gay male friends on a Saturday night on the town.
When it comes to the sexuality of young straight and gay men - meaning, how frequently they think about sex, want it, or feel impatient to get to the actual sex part - there are undoubtedly similarities.
When a straight woman hangs out with a gay man, she begins to put the puzzle together that men, in general, treat sex differently than women do.
Suddenly it all changed for me and the sexual tension was there.
But I had learned this emotional support I knew women needed and tried to work both sides.
Similarly, the friendship of gay men offers something different than the companionship of straight men.
In many ways, gay men and straight women are a perfect pairing.
For the most part, relationships between gay men and straight women are healthy and positive, with one exception I'll get to later.
Even when you remove the sexual element between a straight woman and straight man, the straight man is far more confined to embody a role as the strong, not overly emotional man.
Meanwhile, gay men have the social license to be as outrageous or emotional as they want to be because gay men don't have to fit into such a tightly prescribed role.