Dating and why women play games
You cannot raise a woman’s “Interest Level” over the phone, only lower it. A Definite date has three major ingredients: a day, time and place.Let’s say you met Sonya a week ago at the local concert. You know to keep the conversation, short, light, and to the point. ” She tells you, “I am free Tuesday and Thursday.” You replied, “Cool, I will see you Thursday” and you end the conversation. No, you never mention a time nor did she give you one. After Sonya tells you she is free both Tuesday and Thursday you choose a day and ask, “What time are you free Thursday? Just call me Thursday and I will let you know for sure.” Most men would respond with an “Okay” and proceed to contact her Thursday only to be avoided.It might help to know what men say they are looking for in a woman.Both dating coaches I have interviewed agree with this assessment.Stop spending time worrying whether or not things will work out with women who have little to no interest in you. “Interest Level” measures a woman’s romantic interest in you.Providing the space for people, who do not value you, to walk into your life can potentially lead to a toxic and abusive relationship. If you want to get her number, go on a date, and potentially make her your girlfriend, the closer her interest level is to 100% the better.
Waiting for someone to message you back is nerve reckoning and it can lead to misunderstanding.I recommend that you send no more than three text messages.Say “Hi”, ask her when she is available to get together and let her know you will see her then.As we get older, the things we want out of life often change, and we have less time to play games and be superficial – this is a good thing!But it still helps to know about the emotional languages and occasional disconnects that come up between older men and women.