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After a year, it has to already naturally be REALLY serious (like I could see myself marrying the guy, and he coud see the same, within another year or so), or I'm out. BF/GF talk ~6-8th date If slower, I feel there is a problem in the relationship. Other than that, I pretty much let it flow for about a year.Why can't a girl love a guy and stay with him until he is ready to settle and marry her? I think that if two people can support themselves individually as adults, they can certainly support themselves together, married or whatnot.Especially if "settling" is something like finishing school or some other finite-length transition. And while I don't give a crap if a guy is rich, if he can't support himself, I'm probably not entering into a relationship with him at that stage (It's one thing if you fall on hard times, but that's a crappy stage at which to begin a relationship is all.) So, I'd never take the money excuse.I mean, for me marriage is intricately connected to having kids (I want 3 or 4 ! I can't afford real estate and, similarly, I can't afford kids (I don't want to have kids until I can afford good (probably private) schooling, etc..) Hmm, interesting...I've heard it said that women wait for the right man to marry, while men wait for the right time. Supposedly a woman wants to marry when she meets a man who she wants to be married to.I have occasionally deviated and slept with a man between dates 2-5. Men, on the other hand, are more like taxis - at a certain point in their lives their "Available" light goes on, and the next suitable girl gets the ring.It wasn't and isn't my style and never ended up working for me. I would never marry "the next suitable girl" and when I do marry it'll be out of love.
I find it interesting that a guy wouldn't propose to a girl unless he was financially stable - whatever happened to marrying for love? BF/GF talk ~ about 2.5 months after we started dating.
Just curious, what timeline is typical in your dating experience (what happens at what date)? If we haven't become exclusive AND had sex by around 2 months (at this point), that's weird. Usually I sit around for a good long while celibate and miserable about it, then after a period of time (from months to years) someone will catch my eye and I'll go for it. After that I'll pretty much let the relationship take its course for a year or so; by the second year I'd expect that the relationship was heading towards commitment.
I'd say, generally, if a guy hasn't kissed me by the 3rd date, that's weird. I want exclusivity and bf/gf status before I'm willing to have sex or make out; if we haven't had the exclusivity talk within a couple of months I'll start to lose interest and will look elsewhere for someone who's willing to offer exclusivity.
Around date 4-5 I want to know if we are dating exclusively. Around date 4-5 I want to know if we are dating exclusively.
I am not typically a multi-dater and if a man is still dating other people after date 5, our personalities don't mesh. I am not typically a multi-dater and if a man is still dating other people after date 5, our personalities don't mesh. I've heard it said that women wait for the right man to marry, while men wait for the right time. Supposedly a woman wants to marry when she meets a man who she wants to be married to.