Dating a guy with 2 kids
As a good parent, he is more likely waiting until he feels your relationship is becoming serious before he introduces you.To speed things along you may start by showing him that you could be his friend and your relationship will not hurt him.Remember that this is not the time to be cuddled up with their father.On the contrary, your focus needs to be on getting to know the children.Let’s just face it, there will be times when a date may be canceled, due to his choice to spend the evening with his children instead.
They usually avoid getting into serious relationships and do not easily accept new partners.
Regardless of what’s going on, never give him the choice between you and his kids. After dating for a while, he may want you to meet his children.
Until then, don’t pressure him about meeting his children.
Laydi Boss: The one guy that I dated had 7…but he took care of them all. That was too much for me since I don’t have any kids of my own. He tells his eldest son every chance he gets about the importance of safe sex and not to chase the CAT! Deanne: Wouldn’t it depend more on how he treated his children and their mother/s?
I’Am Royalty: I’d prefer none because I don’t have any. If there are more than one than I’d assume there would be more than one baby’s momma. Does he support his children, is he involved in their lives?